Grow your ACIM community without losing spiritual coherence

Are you a teacher, facilitator or therapist? Make your message go further!

The Paradox of Disgust: The Blind Spot That Stifles Your Community and Program

Has it really never happened to you? A small touch. At that moment when they rent, he comments that the group is "too focused on theory". Or the one who gives you a look of expectation, waiting for a concrete promise: "Are you going to help me stop suffering?"

It doesn't matter if you've been broadcasting A Course in Miracles for years or facilitating psychotherapy with the text: we've been trained, we've attended retreats, you've published videos, you're experienced and authoritative, your content is solid... And yet, those symptoms are still there. Silent discomfort. Discouragement because the community does not grow as you imagined. People who come looking for the cure for a relationship, the promise for the body, or who cling to difference, hierarchy, comparison.

What hurts the most—no matter how much you know it intellectually—is feeling that you can't convey substance and form. That the message of transformation is boxed in formulas of spiritual branding, discreet promises, persuasive copy (how long have you been fine-tuning your sales pages?) and yet, forgiveness does not spring up where you need it: in your own mind.

In your gaze. In the silent pain of the ego that wants to differentiate and separate, that creates hierarchies between your programs, your participants, and their needs.

There is no small displeasure. The root is always in you, and not in the algorithms or in the CEO of the day. The big question arises here:

Can you design your marketing strategy for your accompaniment, programs, workshops, consultations, or memberships, so that you don't fall into the trap of selling "external solutions"?

Can you focus everything to invite honest self-inquiry into the real cause of suffering and open a space where women and men recognize themselves as equal, vulnerable, and able to forgive?

Why the cause isn't out: the ego, forgiveness, and illusion of hierarchies in your communication

We are never disgusted or disgusted for the reason we believe. It doesn't matter if the complaint comes from fear, depression, jealousy, anxiety, anger... The form deceives, they are all the same: the invisible choice of the ego.

We become obsessed with the world, with what's happening outside – the algorithm, the design, the engagement, the open rate, the pipeline – and, in the meantime, our attention escapes us where no marketing plan ever acts: in the mind.

The ego always seeks to prove that you are a victim of something external. That the mastermind, the advanced workshop, the face-to-face training, the new certification or the latest online workshop can save you from a "special" problem, big or small.

But the truth is far more radical: the underlying content of guilt is what drives discomfort, unpleasant emotions, the need for differences, and promises of improvement.

Examples that surely ring a bell:

  • A woman seeks sessions with you to "stop feeling work anxiety", convinced that the problem is her boss.
  • A man asks for accompaniment because "he wants to overcome grief" and expects you to give him a quick solution.
  • A therapist throws questions to his community such as: "What hurts you the most? Your relationship or your health?"

All of this reinforces the hierarchy of illusions that separates us and keeps us trapped, trapped in the dualistic mind of the ego.

The Invitation to Spiritual Marketing: Self-Inquiry, Unity, and Real Content

If the focus is on correcting perception and sustaining forgiveness, marketing cannot be a showcase for "external solutions".

The revolutionary thing then is to invite, from each digital space, the self-inquiry of women and men who seek accompaniment. Not to promise changes in form, but to open the door for you to look within and see what part of you is choosing the ego as your teacher.

From this arises a way of communicating and promoting that:

  • It invites us to observe our own mind, not to look for a culprit outside.
  • Position your sessions as spaces where the correction of perception and forgiveness are the proposal, not the management of the external symptom.
  • Focus publications, newsletters, landing pages and stories on the foundational question: "Where is the source of your suffering? In the boss, in the relationship, or in your mind?"
  • It breaks the ritual of offering "the ultimate solution" and embraces the extension of love, humility, sharing among equals.
  • Use digital content to sow vulnerability, share experiences of resistance, failure, slow change. This is how a real community is created, where each woman and man recognizes themselves in another, in another.

How to avoid specialization and the hierarchy of needs in your digital strategy

Marketing, if it is intended to be aligned with ACIM, can never repeat the traditional trap: "Get peace in ten steps", "Be the person your partner deserves", "Overcome the fear of judgment with this challenge". All of this reinforces specialness—that defense of the ego that screams, "me, me, me"—and perpetuates the cycle of difference and competition.

In practice, this requires:

  • Do not promise worldly results, such as social success, physical health, outer reconciliation.
  • Do not sell your program as more "special" than others, nor do you as a "guru teacher", "unique facilitator", "advanced psychotherapist".
  • Break down the internal hierarchy: work anxiety is no less or more important than grief, depression is no more serious than anger, the fear of losing followers is no less hurtful than the fear of abandonment.
  • Share testimonies and anecdotes where your own failures and doubts are present, not just successes and "transformations".
  • To offer a community space where all voices, doubts and resistances have value, without categorizing or promising rapid promotions.

How to Seed Self-Inquiry and Forgiveness at Every Digital Touchpoint

In the end, what matters is not how much the campaigns are polished, but whether your communication reveals authenticity and love. Concrete exercises and guidelines can accompany you, but real practice begins in vulnerability. Here are some gestures that can transform your strategy:

  • Ask open-ended questions in your content, not quick answers: "What concrete form does your displeasure take today?", "What do you think is the cause?"
  • It tells its own stories, mistakes, internal resistances, without making them up. A facilitator can share how guilt blocked her in a throw, a psychotherapist can narrate her fear of not being enough in the face of the group's expectations.
  • It offers shared micro-spaces: small forums, virtual coffees, short audios, where people can express their small and large annoyances, avoiding categorization.
  • It encourages the community to collectively examine the internal cause of their discomfort, rather than looking outside for explanations.
  • Share that you also keep choosing (and undoing) the ego, that you are not special or "above" in any process.

How to Hold Up in the Face of Resistance: Authenticity, Kindness, and Detachment in Your Marketing Practice

The process will not be comfortable. There will be days of discouragement. Kindness to you, to the women and men who follow you, becomes a vital principle. It is not demanding perfection, nor obsessing over metrics or comparisons. Kindness is the firm ground on which your digital project is built and, above all, your peace.

  • Become a friend, a friend of your own resistance. When motivation wanes, give yourself permission to fail, to rethink the formula, to ask for help.
  • Invite your audience to follow you, not as a follower, but as an equal. He publicly acknowledges mistakes and changes of course.
  • See if you identify too much with results, figures, likes and shares. Remind yourself that the cause is not there, but in your way of looking and choosing.
  • Create content only when you feel like you're extending something useful and true. Don't force yourself to publish if you do it from fear or comparison.
  • Use creative pause as a form of kindness: leaving blank spaces, silences so that they can inhabit the content internally.

What if forgiveness was your best branding message?

Forget the perfect storytelling or heroic narrative. If everything is illusion, all history is equally ephemeral. The only thing that remains is forgiveness. So why not make it the heart of your brand, your project, and your community?

  • Make forgiveness your main content mechanic: stories of forgiveness, practical exercises, sharing fears and jealousy, not as obstacles but as practice scenarios.
  • Propose introspection challenges where women and men do not reach a "goal", but the honesty of looking at the cause in their minds.
  • Allow humility and equality to be differentiating elements of your strategy. The facilitator, the psychotherapist and the psychotherapist: everyone continues to learn, practice, fail, and correct themselves according to the inner voice of Jesus.
  • Include self-forgiveness as part of your communication: acknowledge your own traps of specialness and difference, make it public, let people see you as human, human.

Practical checklist for your spiritual marketing and ACIM project strategy

  • Do you always invite self-inquiry into the inner cause, without focusing on external promises?
  • Does your content leave the door open to error, to vulnerability, to the unfinished process of forgiveness?
  • Do you communicate horizontally, recognizing the equality between your participants and your role as facilitator, facilitator, psychotherapist?
  • Do you avoid creating hierarchies of needs in your programs, campaigns, websites and networks?
  • Do you include testimonials that reflect kindness, resilience, slow change, and not just radiant success?
  • Do you extend the content from love, honesty and detachment from results?

Reflects. Writes. Inhabits the process.

When the only real strategy is honesty: the legacy of your project and your peace

In the end, every technique falls short if it is not born from honesty. Increase visibility, attract participants in your programs, foster community, yes; but without losing sight of the fact that all these are forms, not the substance.

The bottom line is the correctness of perception, the humility of accepting that there is no difference between the greatness of a webinar and the small comment on your secondary Instagram account.

Spiritual marketing to facilitators, facilitators, teachers, and psychotherapists of A Course in Miracles is a living practice. It's the decision to look at the inner resistance, the need to be special, the little disgust at every technical glitch, and remind yourself — always — that the only cause is in the mind, and that forgiveness is possible here and now.

Are you willing, are you willing to stop looking outside for the cause of your visibility, your success and your peace? To carry out each marketing action from the deep vulnerability of knowing oneself to be the same, imperfect, imperfect, and capable of forgiving everything?

There are no small disappointments: in this way, your project will also be able to grow without violence, without self-imposed demands, adding love and extension as authentic engines of transformation.

Self-assessment test

INSTRUCTIONS

This test is a space to honestly recognize the inner climate that sustains your digital project, your communication strategies and the way in which you offer support services from ACIM. It does not respond to an examination, nor to external demands, nor to performance comparisons. It is an invitation to observe with lucidity the place from which you communicate, create content or present your offers, knowing that your only function is to serve from truth and union.

QUESTIONS (Mark A, B or C on each)

1. Where does the intention come from when creating a publication, page or landing?



2. When I design a digital campaign, what I am primarily looking for is:



3. When sharing testimonials or stories from participants:



4. When I see that another woman or man's digital project is growing more than mine:



5. The price of my sessions or content is mainly set:



6. Before each publication, I check if I am communicating from:



7. When I receive critical comments or doubts:



8. When writing or recording content:



9. Deep down, do I design my programs and sessions to...?



10. When a post doesn't have the expected engagement:



11. The relationship with my community is:



12. If a therapy session doesn't go as expected:



13. The marketing I practice is focused on:



14. When I see new digital trends (reels, AI, etc):



15. How to attract participants to my workshops:



16. The feeling in front of the competition...



17. The inspiration to create new content comes from:



18. I experience the abundance of the project as:



19. When I feel anxiety about "selling" or "growing":



20. My Launches, Promotions, or One-to-One Contacts:



Are you a teacher, facilitator or therapist? Make your message go further!

My name is David Pascual, and I am the person behind ACIM GUIDE.

Here's what I learn about A Course in Miracles , in order to support students in their practice. I also help facilitators and teachers improve their digital and personal communication.

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If you want, write to me; I will be happy to help you with whatever you need.

My wish is that what you find here accompanies you on your way to rediscovering yourself.

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